Since you have the whole edge list in advance, you can process it backwards, connecting the graph instead of disconnecting it.
In pseudo-code:
GIVEN:
edges = list of edges
outputMap = new empty map from vertex to iteration number
S = source vertex
//first remove all the edges in the list
for (int i=0;i<edges.size();i++) {
removeEdge(edges[i]);
}
//find vertices that are never disconnected
//use DFS or BFS
foreach vertex reachable from S
{
outputMap[vertex] = -1;
}
//walk through the edges backward, reconnecting
//the graph
for (int i=edges.size()-1; i>=0; i--)
{
Vertex v1 = edges[i].v1;
Vertex v2 = edges[i].v2;
Vertex newlyConnected = null;
//this is for an undirected graph
//for a directed graph, you only test one way
//is a new vertex being connected to the source?
if (outputMap.containsKey(v1) && !outputMap.containsKey(v2))
newlyConnected = v2;
else if (outputMap.containsKey(v2) && !outputMap.containsKey(v1))
newlyConnected = v1;
if (newlyConnected != null)
{
//BFS or DFS again
foreach vertex reachable from newlyConnected
{
//It's easy to calculate the desired remove iteration number
//from our add iteration number
outputMap[vertex] = edges.size()-i;
}
}
addEdge(v1,v2);
}
//generate output
foreach entry in outputMap
{
if (entry.value >=0)
{
print("vertex "+entry.key+" disconnects in iteration "+entry.value);
}
}
This algorithm achieves linear time, since each vertex is only involved in a single BFS or DFS, before it gets connected to the source.